About Nik and the 30 Days of Affirmations Journey

Hi, I’m Nik—a lifelong affirmation lover, teacher, and guide for women who are ready to reclaim their joy and step into their next chapter.

I know what it’s like to feel stuck, uncertain, or unsure where to start.
But I also know the quiet power of affirmations—and how they can shift everything when you use them intentionally.

Whether you’re brand-new to affirmations or looking to deepen your practice, you’ll find simple, supportive tools here to help you grow.

My Real-Life Affirmation Stories

The College Dream That Came True

I’ve been using affirmations since childhood—long before I even knew what they were.

At around 10 or 11, I made a bold decision: I would go to an all-women’s college near a major city, that was part of a coed university far from home, with a scholarship. I kept repeating that vision, fully believing it would happen.

Years later, during my senior year of high school, a representative visited from a school I’d never heard of—but it matched every single detail of my affirmation, including the financial aid I had imagined.

When Affirmations Worked—But Life Took an Unexpected Turn

In my early 30s, I decided I wanted to have a child before I turned 35. For years, I had been unsure about motherhood, but as I approached 30, I made up my mind—and I affirmed it over and over.

At 33, I met someone, we started a relationship, and I became pregnant. My son was born in December 2005, just after I turned 34.

But during labor, my son passed away.

It was the most devastating experience of my life. It also taught me something most people never tell you about affirmations:
They do work—but life doesn’t always unfold the way you expect.

I affirmed my desire and followed through—but the outcome was painful and unexpected. And yet, in time, I realized that even in heartbreak, affirmations had worked in ways I couldn’t yet understand. My son’s father was not a healthy partner, and without that shared bond, I was able to walk away and heal.

Affirmations guided me through both the joy and the pain—and helped me keep moving forward.

Reinventing My Life at 40

After losing my son and ending that relationship, I felt completely lost. I didn’t know what I wanted anymore.

But as I approached my 40th birthday, I had a realization: I had no responsibilities except to myself. It was time to create a new dream.

I had always wanted to travel the world—but there was always something in the way: work, relationships, finances. But this time, I affirmed that it was finally going to happen.

I got my passport, enrolled in a course to teach English abroad, and started applying for jobs. Before I turned 41, I was on a plane to China to start a brand-new chapter as an English teacher.

I uprooted my life because I made a decision, affirmed it, released all doubt, and put in the work to make it real. And I’ve been doing it ever since.

This is why I love affirmation work so deeply—because I know it works. When you believe in what you’re saying, release doubt, and take inspired action—it happens. Period.

That experience showed me just how powerful it can be when you set a clear intention and trust the process.

Affirmations aren’t magic spells. They’re powerful tools for growth, healing, and transformation—at every age and every stage.

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